Just another poem

We're the lunatics in this world full of normalcy.
The honest liars , unaffected by the universal hypocrisy.

Hand in hand , we'll take a stand.
For better or worse; ash to ash , dust to dust. Keeping in mind , the world has its haters , its got the just.
But the right to love is infringed by this superficial bunch.

Their judgemental eyes, prying noses. Sticking in places they shouldn't be;
Judging people who stick it in places they shouldn't be.

In god we trust , this godforsaken nation.
I don't think god cares if you're gay or lesbian.
Never was it written that it makes you less of a being.

But woe to the one who dreams of equality.
Support what I say or you're just spreading misogyny.
Racism and sexism don't exist for the majority.
All of this shit spread by  zealotry.

Spreading your legs is oppressing my feminity.
Misandry is a lie says she, speech full of obscenities.

Forgotten are those who suffer in silence,
The lies of brats masking the violence.

Where is my privilege? I'm straight, white, and male.
You sip on your pumpkin spice,
Telling me to rot in hell, For the basic  transgression of begging for help.

Beautiful.

You're beautiful. How many of us use this phrase at least once a day? How many of us spend our entire lives in pursuit of this famed beauty?
People do everything they can to be termed beautiful in the world's eyes. But we fail to remember, everybody has their own preference. If you have large eyes and I prefer someone with small eyes, you wouldn't be physically attractive to me for the sole reason that I do not like that particular trait. It doesn't mean you aren't beautiful. It shouldn't affect you.ten different people think you're pretty because they like that trait but you jump into a well because I don't ? Opinions of others need not affect you.
They say there is a standard to beauty. You have to be slender but at the same time have large breasts. You have to be tall and have poker straight hair and large eyes and full lips and a small nose and skin whiter than snow. Who came up with this combo? Extremely thin girls with large breasts ? Its natural for but a few. What makes it a standard if it isn't even common? Doesn't this mean that anyone who is not the exact combo is not beautiful? Is ugly? I don't see that many 'conventionally' beautiful girls going around saying that they set the standard for beauty. I see women that are dissatisfied with their own appearance, wishing for such combinations of traits and then blaming society for saying that these combos are beautiful and people without are hideous. What do you even think is society? A group of  people that come up with rules and standards that everybody is supposed to obey? Or is it simply you , Me , and everybody else around?
Nobody imposed anything on you. YOU decided that fair skin is beautiful. YOU went and bought all the creams. YOU complained to everyone about being too dark to be pretty. And it was YOU and only YOU blaming 'society' when your special products didn't work. You not only insult and affect yourself when you call yourself ugly for being dark skinned, you're condemning other dark skinned girls. Girls that believe that they're beautiful in the skin they're in. Its not oppression or someone forcing you to look the way they want you to look so they'd be more attracted to you. Its you having a different meaning of beauty and being dissatisfied with your own appearance. If you think fairness is beauty, you have every rght to go attain it. But you have no right to accuse 'society' or media or the cosmetic industry for that. It was your decision to go buy it. Other women like you decided that fairness is beauty. They decided to make a living off of helping you reach your goals. They share no blame. Men also play no part in this. If you are trying to live up to his standard of beauty , then you're the dumb bitch. You're too stupid to realise that the guy doesn't give two shits. Because if a man or a woman says they love you but that they'd have loved you more if..... , they have no place in your life. Change your attitude. Change your thought process. That's what changes society. Because , after all, it is you who are society.

Premarital sex and the human tendency to interfere in everyone's personal affairs

This post was inspired by a contest on indiblogger.com

My personal opinion on premarital sex is that it really isn't that important a subject. Its everybody's choice. As far as I'm concerned, as long as I love him or her and/or do it willingly, it doesn't really matter. Its a personal choice. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. But, most people refuse to acknowledge the fact that somebody doesn't agree with your beliefs.

They use slurs and terms such as 'immoral','indecent' and quite a few others that I'd rather not mention. If someone needs a person to warm their bed without the ring or the mangalsutra , its their choice. Why does society have to make it a point to force its own religious and moral ideals onto every single person ? 

Women are expected to be virgins till the marriage night. But, does the same rule apply to men? Never have I heard of a man being criticised for his premarital sexual encounters. But with women, its commonplace. Theyre trollops. Western ideology has affected them too much. "Her parents shouldn't have let her watch TV. Or go to work in that office. Wearing pants and skirts. The uncultured, uncouth, whore. We have to warn our boys against her."

Coming back to the point, there's nothing wrong with having a bit of fun without the burden of being married. I read an article the other day about a woman who waited till marriage and later figured out that she didn't even enjoy the act but did it because she'd promised to. What sense does that make?

Marriage is not a prerequisite to explore our own as well as other people's bodies. Some people say that if you've had premarital sex , there's a greater chance of extra marital affairs. Utterly stupid, I say. After having so many or even one or two other people, the person has chosen to stick with and marry their current partner. Out of everyone else. Premarital sex is in no way a contributing factor to extramarital affairs.

Sex is a way to feel closer to your partner. Physical intimacy is just as important as emotional. People have to be compatible in both ways for the relationship to work out.  It helps you get closer and more comfortable to your partner. One night stands are a great way to feel good. You have a splendid time with someone new and some people actually end up dating or at least being friends with their one night stands.

 If its fun,consensual, and it feels great, what's the big fucking deal ?

Thanks for bearing with me till the end of this post.
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Why?

 I don't like people that lie. I might lie my ass off . but I don't lie to make myself look better or put others down. Many people that lie , don't do that. Your reasons count too. Its not what you do, its why you do it.I care about the reason more than I do about the act. Sometimes bad things are done for a good cause. Sometimes good things are done for a wrong cause. White lies are considered bad. But with most girls , especially ones with insecurities , if your reply to do I look fat or do I look ugly, isnt either you're beautiful to me no matter what or no, its not only hurting her self esteem but also your body .

Okay better example. You get raped. You manage to kill the guy. Murder is bad; But is it not justified somewhat in this case ? There are various laws regarding this. Everyone has the right to injure or kill their rapist without repercussions.But it has to be proven that they did indeed rape you or try to. Murder is still wrong. However justified it may be. Homicide is still wrong. Doesn't matter if they deserve it. Doesn't matter if its self preservation. Aren't you just channelling the wrong they did to you by directing a wrong against them.?Killing someone ,including yourself is supposedly wrong according to public opinion. Even if it is for self preservation. You won't be judged for it. You won't be jailed for it. If you can prove you did it in as an act of self preservation, you'll have no repercussions. But , you have killed someone. Whether or not there are any repercussions. Murder is considered wrong. But , it is justified in some cases. That's where the statement comes in. Sometimes , something wrong (murder) is done for a good reason(self preservation). Reasons do matter. You may not face legal repercussions but over time you will face mental ones. You will have a guilty conscience. No matter why you did it. And it'll take years or months of therapy and other help for you to completely move on and learn that tour reasons were important and not what you did. That's the thing. Reasons matter. The conscience needs to be eased.

Everything has a reason. Even the most spontaneous of acts have a reason. You might not know the reason, but there always is one.For any sort of change to occur there has to be some stimulus. Some driving force. something that makes it possible. you wore red boxers.Is there a reason? Possibly. You also had a pair of blue boxers. But you chose red over blue. Maybe it caught your eye. Maybe it was clean and the blue was dirty. It could be anything. But there is always a reason. It may be unkown. It is hard to establish a cause effect relationship but everything has a cause. Whatever it may be. Maybe there's a being from the fifth dimension, controlling your choices, nudging you towards the right direction. Who knows ? "Wear red boxers, they ignore you if you wear red." There may or may not be. You'd never know. Cause is very hard to determine.But if an effect is sufficiently complex, the relationship can be determined more easily. Murder , for example is complex. A red pair of boxers over a blue pair is simpler in nature. What's the reason for that? Therefore one would find it hard to establish such a relationship. Murder involves a ton of psychological as well as biological processes. The release of certain hormones to give you the extra push. The motivation behind the act. Memories. Learning. Everything combines. But when it comes to randomly picking up a pair of boxers , actions are mostly Mechanical. They're on a subconscious level. You don't know why. You just pick it at 'random' Nothing is ever truly 'random'. However, this is not entirely true in quite a few cases.

 Attention is not as simple a process as you may think. There's observation of stimuli then its attention . then you focus.and then its perception where your mental and psychological forces are at play. Memories . learning. Emotions etcetera work together and produce a reaction. Perhaps it was Your laziness that produced the reaction which was to grab the nearest pair.But yeah, as I was saying. There is always a reason. Either conscious or on the subconscious level. For every human action. That's why psychologist work so hard. Unless you establish a cause and effect relationship you can never truly 'cure' something.You can tone it down , yes. You can control it a bit .but you cannot cure something completely until you know exactly what caused it. Psychologists study the reasons for certain human behavioural tendencies. Chemistry majors study the causes of certain reactions. What was needed to make this chemical behave in this way. The entire universe is based on a cause and effect relationship. The biggest question is always , why do we exist. Why do we exist? There has to be a cause for the effect that is our existence. There has to be a cause for the effects of the big bang. There always has to be a cause. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction We know the reaction. What was the action ? What caused god ? God himself is an effect. There has to be some sort of superior being that caused the existence of this one. So on and so forth. There's always a cause for everything. And we , as humans, with our curiosity spend our entire lives searching for causes of various effects. We study. We conduct experiments and research. We advance in our technology.

We do it all to find a cause.

Marijuana on my mind

Contrary to public opinion,

This world isn't just black and white.

Where's a rainbow when you need it?

Flowers are plastic;

Hearts are ice;

Veins, full of drugs;

Come on now , choose your vice.

They'll hate you if you do;

They'll hate you if you don't.

So, what's the point in staying away?

Come on light up that blunt.

You and I

I put my pen to paper,
As I try to calm my heart.
The tears, they blur out most of the words,
And so, once again, I have to start.

The tingling in my arms won't stop.
I clutch the pen as tightly as I can.
Staying away from the blade.
It's not that easy, after all.

I Think of that smile like a beacon of hope
Driving out the darkness in the blink of an eye
That's all that keeps me going anymore
The thought that we'll be together, forever, You and I. 

Someday...

Someday, I'll find my prince.
Someday, I'll make my mark.
Someday, I'll show 'em what I really am all about.

Someday, the pain will end.
Someday, the tears will dry.
Someday, the blood won't drip, anymore.

Someday, I'll prove myself.
Someday, I'll show the world.
Someday, they'll finally understand.

Someday, why's it so far away?
Someday, I've been waiting so long.
Someday, my heart can't take this anymore

Why can't my Someday begin today?